A NOTE TO A DEAR FRIEND

[I’ve just now added a few sentences to the note I originally sent to my friend. D.C.]

Emerson said we don’t make friends–they’re given to us by God. I do believe that with a settled conviction.

I’m aware of the sociological structure of reality and I accept all that it tells us about humans creating the various worlds in which they live and the relationships they create in all the complex ways [known and unknown, obvious and mysterious] that relationships are made. None of this we reject, nor should we reject it for God made humans as humans and to be humans so we’re involved in creating worlds. But beyond our engagement in this truth and in these realities there is an overshadowing grace, always offering, always helping, always shaping [without forcing  or coercion] hearts and minds and taking opportunity in “chance” events to bring lives together. How is that we happened to meet though born and raised half a world apart and what was it that lit a flame that has stayed warm, bright and alive for these 53 years?
We say “Who?” rather than simply “what?” And He does it invisibly, without noise, incognito and with full use of humans as humans. And because He operates this way sociologists like Berger, Luckmann, Durkheim or Gottwald are strongly tempted to reduce the entire process to the horizontal and to human creativeness.
But Jesus won’t have it. The entire Holy Scriptures, read as a single unfolding drama won’t have it. If there is anything good in life, truly good and noble and honorable and warm and lovely and joy-bringing, it is the work of the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ who works with and in and through humans to whom He gave and gives creative power to enrich and bless and beautify. And though we see ugliness and other things, a single strong, sweet, honorable love multiplied by millions defies a graceless world.
There’s always the mystery as to how God allows humans to be humans, free in their choices to do this rather than that or that rather than this; to do it  here rather than there; at this time rather than some other time—-the mystery of how He can choose to allow all that and still be the author of what is beautiful and lasting, warm and ennobling, pleasure and adventure-bringing.
In the end, looking back at it all we know beyond rational debate that we really did have an actual hand in the making of it and that our background and life experiences and situations had definite input. It wasn’t done without us. We know that! And then if we’re blessed as you and I have been blessed by His shaping, we know beyond “proof” that He behind the scenes was enjoying Himself in bringing the lovely and never-ending thing about.
He’s doing it ceaselessly even in these moments and He will continue to do it.

He did it for me with us.
This entry was posted in REFLECTIONS ON THIS AND THAT on by .

About Jim McGuiggan

Jim McGuiggan was Ethel's husband for fifty-three years. They have three children and eight grandchildren. Ethel went to be with Christ on Easter Sunday, 2009 at the close of a gallant life. He has written some books including: Celebrating the Wrath of God; Heading Home with God; Life on the Ash Heap; Jesus: Hero of Thy Soul; The God of the Towel, The Scarlet Letter; and The Dragon Slayer.

2 thoughts on “A NOTE TO A DEAR FRIEND

  1. Imogene McAnulty

    I have a friend that our friendship has lasted long and bright because Christ was in it all the time. He allowed us to meet and to know that we wanted this friendship which was and still is a gift from Christ. God is in control and we need to believe that if we are indeed His followers. Blessed by the one who knows what friendship is about and remembering that our goal is to honor Him in all things. Thanks for this article.

    Like

    Reply
  2. Imogene McAnulty

    Thanks for your reply, uplifting as always. God bless you and your family and know that we love and appreciate you and your work. Dale joins me in wishing only the best for a ”great scholar of the Word of God”! May God give you a good new year and as productive as you want. With our love and blessings, Dale and Imogene McAnulty

    Like

    Reply

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s